Can’t Get a Girlfriend Because You Have Acne?

By 06/24/2011November 7th, 2014Acne Secrets, Popular

Have you ever felt like you couldn’t get a girlfriend because of your acne?

Have you ever seen a girl that you really liked but you couldn’t talk to her because you couldn’t stop thinking about your acne?

Have you ever been afraid of getting too close to a girl because you were afraid of her noticing that pimple on your face?

Have you been rejected by a girl and thought that it was because you had acne?

Are you convinced that it’s because of your acne that you can’t get a girlfriend?

Well… I’ll be honest with you…

I have.

I have felt that way, I have felt like I couldn’t get a girlfriend because I had acne.  Having pimples affected my self esteem, confidence, and definitely affected my ability to talk to women for a very long time.  I had a hard time getting close to girls when I was younger because I thought that I a lot of pimples on my face and that they would be disgusted by them if I got too close.  Often times, I would stay a few feet away from women that I was attracted to because getting too close made me self conscious and it made me nervous.

And when I got nervous, I got sweaty.  Not a good combination.  I started imagining that they thought my face was disgusting with all the swollen bumps, enlarged pores, and acne scars.

All in all?  It wasn’t a very good combination.  And it certainly didn’t help me with the ladies…

Looking back, I think my emotional growth was definitely stunted for a time because I was really focused on my acne and my face.  And don’t get me wrong, it was probably all in my head.  If you’re saying that now, you’re probably right.  But if you’ve ever suffered from moderate to severe acne, or any acne at all, you might get where I’m coming from when I say, “It didn’t matter if it was in my head, I just couldn’t get passed it.  I needed to clear my skin.”

And it’s probably just an excuse, but in the past when I had really bad acne, I had to look at myself everyday in the mirror and that did NOT make things any easier.  On top of that, I think there was a pretty solid foundation of a belief of how much looks mattered and how ugly and disgusting I thought I looked because of my acne.

I actually didn’t think that I was that bad looking either.  I knew that if I could just clear my acne, I could finally move on with my life and maybe start this whole “getting a girlfriend” process.

The funny thing is, I even had a few girlfriends.  I really worked on my personality and my inner strengths because no matter what I did, I couldn’t seem to get the “outside” clear.  My girlfriends many times were attractive too and there were plenty of other guys that wanted to get with them.  But even while I was with them, my insecurity about my acne and my skin was always in the back of my mind.  And it was usually a matter of time before I screwed things up from being so self conscious, sensitive, and insecure.

So when this subject comes up, a lot of times, I want to tell people that suffer from acne that their face doesn’t matter as much as they thing, especially as a man.  However, having gone through and experienced the whole acne when it comes to beautiful women and girlfriends, I know it sometimes just doesn’t matter.

If you still have break outs or suffer from acne, I know that all you want to do is clear your acne so that you can move on with this part of your life and get a girlfriend.  So I’m not going to try to settle with you with something that’s less than satisfying.

Let’s do it, let’s clear your acne.  I’ve been through all the products, the gels, the creams, the surgeries, the antibiotics, the pain, and the heartache.  I know exactly how to help you get over this “hump.” 😉

THE ACNE FREE DIET is designed to clear your acne quickly and naturally for long lasting and PERMANENT results so that you can look that girl in the eye and know that she finds you attractive and that she thinks you’re good looking TOO.  The best part is, I don’t focus on the external, short term solutions like pills or the next face wash like ProActiv.  My program is about clearing your acne naturally from the inside through the Acne Free Diet.

Best of all, it’s FREE for you to learn about.

So what are you waiting for?

CLEAR YOUR SKIN AND ATTRACT THE WOMAN OF YOUR DREAMS

The solution to curing your acne is to not focus on improving your health in the commonly accepted way.   Now, what I’m NOT saying is to not work out, not eat healthy, and not wash your skin.  That is NOT what I’m saying.  However, what I am saying is that what we believe now to be “taking care” of our bodies needs to be tweaked a little bit, especially if you have acne.  And that “tweak” that you’re looking for is exactly what How To Clear Your Acne is about.

What every acne sufferer must learn, especially the ones that are really fit and health conscious yet still can’t figure out why they still have acne, is that there is a DIFFERENT KIND OF TAKING CARE OF YOUR BODY ROUTINE for us.  Our bodies are different than the “average” person who eats whatever they want and just gains weight.  Sometimes our bodies, which you’ve probably already noticed, doesn’t even gain weight.  Sometimes, when we neglect our bodies, we just end up breaking out instead.  And it sucks.

It doesn’t make any sense that we’re eating “right,” working out, getting a good sweat, going to a sauna, washing our face, and then doing a facial mask yet we STILL breakout.  WHY?!

So whatever you do, don’t just keep working out and trying to eat “healthy” thinking that something’s going to change and that your acne is suddenly going to start clearing up if you just try harder.

I know this doesn’t work.  Because that’s what I used to do.  I would just redouble my efforts thinking that I wasn’t trying hard enough.  But that’s not the answer and it’s not going to cure your acne.

You need to stop and think.  Reformulate a new plan.  Really try and understand what’s going on.  Figure out the WHY.

It’s questions just like these that I racked my brain for years!   I’ve been in your shoes before and it’s hard to really know what works and what doesn’t.  It just seems like there are so many acne products out there, it’s hard to really find out with ones are telling the truth and which ones are lying. I’ve bought a lot of them too, Clearasil, Murad, ProActiv, those are just to name a few that I’ve tried.  I used to have use a lot of acne products such as aloe vera, benzoyl peroxide, face creams, masks, etc… But these days, I barely even wash my face once a day sometimes, and I’m still clear. I’m proof that clearing your acne the healthy and natural way works. And it’s permanent too, I still have clear skin and I have no problems maintaining acne free, clear skin.

And I finally figured out the perfect routine and way to care for our bodies and our skin if you have acne.  The true causes of acne are really dirty blood and an overwhelmed system. And I talk a lot about these two causes in my website and more in detail about how to deal with them in my products.

For anybody reading this article, if you’re serious about clearing your acne for good, the logical next step for you would be to learn about your body. It doesn’t matter if you choose me or someone else, I would highly recommend you to start learning about how to clear your acne from the inside instead of concentrating on the outside. Make sure you know that outside acne treatments are only short term, and that you really want to focus on clearing acne from the inside out.

I don’t hold back in this program, I’m telling you all of my experience, my stories, what I went through, what I learned, how I cleared my acne, and I’m teaching you exactly as if I were standing right next to you coaching you through the way. I WISH that I had something like this when I had acne. It would’ve saved me so much TIME, MONEY, and ENERGY.

I, and thousands of other people, have spent years of our lives suffering from acne.  And I mean REALLY SUFFERING from having acne.  And it’s just a handful of us that finally found the secret to be able to free ourselves from those dark days when we hated the reflections of ourselves in the mirror.

There are those people out there that look at their old pictures and remember the days when they USED TO HAVE acne.

Some of them now have moved on with their lives and forgotten about the nights that they were ashamed of meeting new people because of their acne.

The question I have for you is…

WILL THAT YOU BE THAT GUY?

Or are you going to just be another one of the dozens and hundreds and thousands of guys that just stand and wait… or hopes that whatever you’re doing now will somehow magically start working?

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It’s time for you to stop sitting on the sidelines and missing out on the acne free life you should be living. I’ll show you how.

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Ray

About Ray

Ray was an ex-acne sufferer for more than 10+ years and spent over $10,000 on acne products, creams, dermatologists, laser surgeries, ProActiv, you name it, he's tried it. After finally curing himself through diet, he became a believer that the right formula of food can truly heal all. While starting My Acne Coach, he finished his Masters degree in Nutrition & Dietetics and became a Certified Alternative Nutritionist.

2 Comments

  • Eman says:

    Hey Ray. Great article. I have felt exactly the same way in the past and it’s funny that I came across this article today after discussing getting a girlfriend today with family. I admire your honesty and your desire to help acne sufferers around the world. Thanks!

    • ray says:

      Hi Eman, thanks for the compliment. I’m just trying to be honest with people about what I’ve learned over the years. This really was a big part of my life. And I would hate to have other people suffer like I have, especially when I wasted close to 10 years.

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